Love

 

The King James Bible, One Corinthians 13:13, states, “And now abideth faith, hope, charity, these three; but the greatest of these is charity.” The Aramaic Bible in Plain English reads, “For there are these three things that endure: faith, hope and love, but the greatest of these is love.” One translates “charity,” while the other reads “love.” St. Paul doesn’t explain why charity or love is greater than the other graces. For this contemplation I prefer the term “love” over “charity” because these days sharity is more related to the giving of money or other gifts to helping organizations or people in need. Love, however, is free of this baggage and much more expansive—the reason I chose this photograph.

I noted in previous blogs that faith and hope have higher and lower “vibrations.” Like frequencies of light and sound, they have higher and lower frequencies—and therefore potencies. I use this terminology, not to rank one frequency as better or lesser than any other, but because they are vibratory and irrespective of application, the mysterious substances of these graces are consistent throughout their spectra. 

In my worldview, love has a much higher frequency than either faith or hope, which are uniquely human experiences that give rise to action characterized by a desire for unification. Love encompasses and transcends human experience. Jesuit paleontologist and philosopher, Pierre Teilhard de Chardin S.J., wrote that love is “The affinity of being for being.” I favor this view because it recognizes love as an energy that’s intrinsic to the universe. In support of this notion, engineer and philosopher, R. Buckminster Fuller, often said that “Love is metaphysical gravity.” That is, it holds all things together, in relationship, at all times, everywhere. And with regard to the action that love gives rise to, Mother Teresa said, “It is not the magnitude of our actions but the amount of love that is put into them that matters.” Putting these together, what we know of love is that it’s an energy, a force the favors relationship and bonding throughout the universe. In the human experience it prompts the desire for unification.   

Country singer, Clint Black, sings a beautiful song that says, love isn’t something that we find or have, “It isn’t something that we’re in, it’s something that we do.” The song references the frequencies of love that are the subject of literature, theater, film and mass media—romance, intimacy, amorous relationship and marriage. As biological creatures it’s natural and evolutionarily necessary for these to be paramount in our consciousness, rites, rituals and celebrations. Within these frequencies we marvel at the process of “falling” and “being” in love and lament the falling out of love. Indeed, love at the lower frequencies is something that we do.

The ancient Greek philosophers understood that there’s more to love than finding it and making it. Their term “Eros” referred to this kind of elemental love—eroticism and intimate love, the kind of love where there’s an expectation of return. “If you make me happy and I’ll make you happy.” “Storge” was their word for the natural affection between parents and children. It says “I cannot help but love you.” “Philia” was affectionate regard for friends—“If you show me virtue, equality and familiarity, I will care for you.” And “Agape” was the term applied to brotherly love, charity, the love of God and God’s love for man. Significantly, this was unconditional love— “No matter what happens or what you do, I will love you.” Thomas Aquinas wrote that Agape was “to will the good of another.” 

All these distinctions regard love as a quality of relationship between human beings or humans and God, given our senses and common interpersonal experience. But at the highest, most potent frequency, “transcendent” love steps away from material, space/time relationships and moves into the realm of Ultimate Reality, the present moment and union at a cosmic level—where there is no object at which to direct love. It simply is, occurring as an unexpected, fleeting and uncontrollable upwelling, a completeness that encompasses all that is, as it is. And it urges no action. Sri Nisargadatta wrote, “When I look inside and see that I am nothing, that’s wisdom. When I look outside and see that I am everything, that is love. Between these two my life turns.”

If love is metaphysical gravity, the energy that holds all things together, might it be that the experience of transcendent love occurs when this is fully realized? I’m reminded that we only know such energies by their effects. For instance, we know how atoms and sub-atomic “particles” interact and unite to form matter And we know that they’re forces operating in space rather than particles. But we don’t really know what they are or why they are. The same is true of love. If Bucky is right about the energy of love holding everything together at every level, might it be the fundamental force of the universe? In that case, besides love being something that we seek, have and do, love would be something that we are. Full disclosure, this is what I believe.

Benjamin Disraeli wrote, “We are born for love. It is the principle of existence, and its only end.” If all the above is true, what would be the consequence of living in such a universe? My view combines what Mother Teresa and Thomas Aquinas recommended, that as conscious beings, evolution encourages us to maximize the amount of love in all that we do and, as much as possible, widen our circle of love until it becomes universal and unconditional—willing the good of the universe and all it contains.

On the day-to-day practical side, awareness of these vibrational distinctions can ease suffering. From a Buddhist perspective, the more we move from eros to agape—from thoughts and words of judging to non-judging, from controlling to allowing, from disapproving to supporting, from criticizing to empowering, from denying to accepting, from doing to being—the less we suffer in the face of breakdown and disappointment, and the more we contribute to those we love, to good karma (response to action) and future happiness. Irrespective of the frequency of love on the energy spectrum, it promotes union, the refinement of personality and the expansion of consciousness.    

Some day, after mastering the winds, waves, tides and gravity, we shall harness for God the energies of love and then, for the second time in the history of the world, man will have discovered fire.

Pierre Teilhard de Chardin, S.J.

About This Image

Title: Sunlight Streaming Over The Gulf Of Mexico

File #: DC2876

With my digital camera on a tripod, I made this exposure from the third floor of our rented condo. What you don’t see are the numerous exposures made before and after this precious moment.

I invite you to visit my portfolio site: David L. Smith Photography

As a reminder: My email address has been changed to: smitdl@fuse.net

One thought on “Love

  1. I love your reflections on love. I appreciate the spectrum that you offer that we have, do, and also are. I too like thinking about the force that exists between us and among us as love. And looking at the ever-changing ocean makes the complexity of our world seem simpler and laid bare for some reason. Love this beautiful photograph and the reflection and the author too! 🙂

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